Week 7: Socialization Done Right
Week 7: Socialization Done Right
Welcome to the week where “the world” starts to open up- and your puppy learns it’s not something to fear, bark at, or pee themselves over.
This is not a week to parade your puppy through PetSmart like they’re Simba being held up on Pride Rock. This is the week we teach calm curiosity. Exposure, not overload. Observation, not overstimulation.
🧠 Why This Week Matters
If you wait too long to show your puppy the world, they’ll fear it.
If you rush it, they’ll panic and imprint the fear.
But if you guide them- slowly, calmly, confidently-
they’ll learn:
“Ah. That’s just life. I’ve got this.”
And that’s how you raise a chill, grounded adult dog.
🏞️ Start Small, Start Smart
Let them discover textures.
Think: outdoor scavenger hunt for paws. Grass, tile, mulch, pavement, wood, slippery floors- let them explore it all.
Why? Because a pup who’s never stepped on linoleum shouldn’t be expected to confidently waltz into the vet’s office later. Introduce it now, when the stakes are low and the cheese sticks are high.
🔊 Add Soundscapes
Vacuum running?
Doorbell?
TV with gunshots on low volume?
Good. These are opportunities. Don’t coddle. Don’t mute.
Instead, toss a treat or calmly redirect them when they stop and don’t react.
If they look at the vacuum and chill? Jackpot. That’s your training gold.
🧠 Analogy: Think of your puppy’s brain like a sponge at this age—you’re either soaking in security or anxiety. What you normalize now becomes the blueprint later.
🚗 Short Car Rides = Long-Term Wins
Put your pup in the back seat with a seatbelt tether (not a harness).
Offer a pizzle stick or frozen chew for calmness.
Drive around the block. That’s it. Then go home like it’s no big deal.
Why short rides? Because we want the car to mean “nap + chew time”, not “vet shots + motion sickness.”
The goal is emotional neutrality- not excitement, not fear.
🧍♂️ Humans Are Part of the World Too
Don’t let 10 people bombard your puppy at once. Let your puppy watch from a distance. One person talking nearby. Another walking past in a funny hat.
Let them approach only if your puppy is curious and calm.
Important:
Don’t pet your dog when they’re scared.
Why? Because you’re rewarding their fear state.
Do this instead:
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Wait for calm body language
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Soft eye contact, lowered ears
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Then mark it: “Good calm” + treat/praise
You’re shaping emotional responses- not just behavior.
🎒 What to Use This Week:
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Seatbelt tether (for car safety without a clunky harness)
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Long-lasting chews (like pizzles, not plush toys)
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Portable treat pouch (you need to reward at the right moment)
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Expandable baby gate (to give freedom while still managing overstimulation)
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Your own energy – Calm in = Calm out. Still true. Always.
👀 What NOT To Do This Week:
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No dog parks
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No random off-leash greetings
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No forcing interactions
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No loud places like fireworks, big events, etc.
(You wouldn’t throw a toddler into Times Square and call it growth. Same logic here.)
🎯 Your Week 1 Goal:
By the end of your first week, your pup should’ve:
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Walked across 3+ new surfaces
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Heard 3+ new household sounds
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Sat calmly while watching 2-3 people walk by
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Taken 2-3 short car rides with zero drama
That’s it. Small wins, big returns.


